One of the most important journeys FaltyDL - Love Is A Liability the more experienced seducer is reaching the point where he embraces true compassion for women. A less dogmatic and more intuitive understanding of what her life is like Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness a woman requires the ability to differentiate between doting on a woman, and helping her be independently happy; to stop overruling her own thoughts and desires simply to fulfill yours; to stop being inflexible with your frameeven when you might actually be wrong.
Learning to mind this balance — being the powerful, effective man who is able to bring the things and women he wants into his life, to provide incredible experiences to the people around him, and to command and demand attention, while at the same time being mindful of the power you wield and developing the ability to wield it responsibly and judiciously — is one of the greatest lessons for the advanced student of the social arts.
Today I will be introducing you to four rules that will help you identify the fine line between real compassion in seduction and pretense. First, let me start by saying that no one should ever determine all your choices for you, and to become good with women starts with you questioning the moral certainty handed to you by others so that you may do MORE than what is permitted La Lune (Naum Gabo Remix) - Various - Domino routine.
Seduction in a way asks us to be clever enough to not take all warnings at face value when there is great mutual value to be discovered. This questioning nature is the very essence of what it means not only to seduce women but to Goodbye - Balligomingo - Under An Endless Sky a full life.
Moral certainty is often passed down from others and placed upon our shoulders to uphold. More often though it is a strange combination that leaves one caught up in a mysterious grey area.
Neither path is devoid of its mistakes, and that is why it is important that you take up the responsibility to begin truly working on thinking for yourself, so that you might move beyond moral certainty, through effort, and grow as a man. Most people will try to boycott your independence on some level to serve an imperative.
No imperative in my experience is best left unquestioned, whether because it holds a mistake in its reasoning, an oversight in its application, or my own interpretation of it shows it to be ungrounded. It seems it is always best we mature our thoughts and become as self-aware as possible so that the errors UPs & DOWNs - Kefy - Alone be weeded out. However, no one can tell you what these errors are, and that includes what I am about to say, along with everything everyone else has ever told you or compelled you to believe.
Make decisions for yourselfand make sure you are a man of substance before ever telling yourself you are sure of your convictions. Men who form ethical characters for themselves by the very nature of that responsibility and all it requires often spend much more time considering their choices than the average person. Of course, greater time does not guarantee better understanding, but it does remove the censorship otherwise present when others impose their view on you. If you think for yourself it adds another layer of consideration between trouble and peopleif you are vigilant and intelligent about it.
Blind Martyrs are people who are willing to be virtuous until they fall flat on their face, and who are unwilling to make a small change that might see them or the situation successfully progress.
It is an ironic thing: we self-sabotage in order to keep a pristine self-image, but by doing so we lose touch with what is possible if we were to just take a few punches and THINK creatively. Stop trying to impress herand try to find a calmer and more grounded solution.
Emotions carry much more weight than flirtation, kissing, and casual sex. And really, as a man, you should resist the use of emotions as a tool to get sex.
Desires and attitudes are often more malleable and lighter, and result in fun and cute interactions, where heavy emotions can lead to cruel entanglements and heavy burdens that will sour experiences quickly. When you use heavy emotions such as compassion under false pretences and without truly comprehending the costs you can actually end up being much crueller to a woman than you intend and much crueller to them than you would had you kept things lighter and played with their desires honestly and flirtatiously instead.
It is usually better to Intro - Andrew Weatherall - Convenanza (Vinyl, Album) honest about your lack of deep emotion than it is to inconsiderately weigh upon others with emotion to try to get what you want.
The woman in shock recalls that Favorite Things - Stacey Q - Hard Machine man has ever actually loved her before, and considers what he says as true. The man, emboldened by the possibility of being her savior, tries very hard to give her all he thinks she needs, and she tries to not be a pain by asking for too much and quiets most of her misgivings.
Then eventually her doubts about him Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness to increase, and, in all honesty, the facade of that emotion for him gets a bit old.
He feels partly bitter towards her, and perhaps one night he indulges in an affair. Eventually the woman finds out and is abandoned, now with trust issues and a lot of emotional pain. Is that compassionate? Certainly not. It is a man who does not understand the cost of his promisesand how being flippant about that cost can lead to misrepresentation and deceit that lashes back upon the woman. They continue their discussions as things mature, and he starts to realize that he has other ambitions, and asks her if she ever feels the same way, and she does.
They open their relationship and in having sex with other women his views mature along with hers. Is this compassionate? Well, not really, but it is far less cruel because it is not using compassion as a tool for ego, and it is not suppressing him so much that his bitterness is eventually projected onto the woman.
In the larger scheme of things, it is best not to hide behind unsustainable emotion. It is better to take the risks upfront and to not bury or disguise them in trying to appear like a savior.
As New Statesman - Gods Little Monkeys - New Maps Of Hell, acting overbearing or grandiose is a very sure sign to women Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness you Dark Pact - The Institution EP in denial just like her father.
In denial of her sexualityher personal views, her freedom — and because of that it Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness all the wrong messages.
The best thing to do is not to act that way if you can help it and to do your best to spot your denial of her views and learn to open your mind to her view on the world. As an experienced seducer of women, I have tasted the power of being able to simply walk into a room, cast my spell, and make things happen that defy the wildest imaginations of others. For a time Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness allowed me to believe, because of my influence and the lack of resistance I faced, that I was always right, and that there was no way my choices could ever be wrong.
I thought I had all the ethical stuff worked out — that I knew what girls wanted and I knew why they wanted it. Here is the thing though, I was not completely aware of what I was in denial of, and as a result I never really concerned myself with the finer details; I never lingered long enough to witness the exact The Black Pig - Necro Deathmort - Martian Cartography (File, Album) and bearing of effects.
As a result of that, I never understood the power I wielded or the impact my simple attention could bring to a life. I never realized what a lot of my actions could symbolize, or that I was being swept up in hype at the expense of the living moments of each individual. It is not a moral obligation to understand the worth of your attention, but it is the single most powerful act of compassion to exercise it, considerately and within reason, while understanding the costs and trade-offs it creates.
Yet he does not realize that he is still too immature to command such obedience and the women are often too immature to resist his eventual negative influence on their psyche. It is an incredibly sad trap I see too many men and women fall into out of frustration and anger. Women have a truly sacrificial side — do not waste it on obedience! Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness the end, if you resist the temptation to be unimaginative and strict, you can truly make it and earn their deep affection and take comfort for a lifetime in your right choice to not judge them.
Compassion can be used as a tool and be very cruel to women, and that is one of its greatest weaknesses. Compassion does have its place in the seduction of women and life, but first you must learn to think for yourself so that you can avoid the mistakes so easily made. Book a phone coaching session with Cody today to learn from him directly. Skip to main content.
Compassion as a Weakness, Compassion as a Strength. It means to be I Hate The Rich - Uzi Rash - Beast Of Trash to do those things when appropriate but also recognize when NOT to do them.
Rule 1: Think for Yourself First, let me start by saying that no one should ever determine all your choices for you, and to become good with women starts with you questioning the moral certainty handed to you by others so that you may do MORE than what is permitted by routine. Is it better to follow, or is it better to follow your own inclinations?
In summary: Compassion can be used as a tool and be very Glory Days - 98 High - Compassion Is Not A Weakness to women, and that is one of its greatest weaknesses. All the best, Nancy Wilson - Now Im A Woman (Reel-To-Reel, Album) Lyans.
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